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As a college senior |
Today happens to be the anniversary of the first time Clark and I met! Yep--October 17, 1968 is an important date in history--in our family, anyway :).
I was a senior in college that year, and Clark was a cadet police
dispatcher in the Raleigh Police Department (NC) at the time. Some of
my college girlfriends and I headed to Raleigh for the annual State
Fair, and on the way we stopped by (now follow closely, because this is
intricate) "my girlfriend's boyfriend's house." Whew. Couldn't think
of a better way to explain it. Perhaps "the home of my girlfriend's
boyfriend"? That doesn't sound much better, does it? But I digress . .
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My girlfriend (Sheila) and her boyfriend (Frank--who lived just outside
Raleigh, in Garner) were going to the State Fair together, and we girls
were gonna tag along. While at Frank's house, his sister Carol and his
brother Joe were also there. Well, Joe (unbeknown to the rest of us),
called his buddy Clark, who lived a few blocks away, to come over to see
all those college girls at his house!
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Young married couple |
Clark did indeed come over a few minutes later and we were all
introduced. If my memory is correct, we ended up not going to the
State Fair because it was pouring rain, but we all stayed at the house and ate spaghetti and enjoyed goofing off. Frank and Sheila went anyway, but came back drenched! The next week Clark invited me out on a date. The rest, as
they say, is history! We'll be celebrating our 44th wedding
anniversary in December.
Through the years, we've had a wonderful life together, good times as
well as heartaches, as everyone does. We have two wonderful daughters,
two fabulous sons-in-law, three perfect grandchildren, and a great
extended family. Above all, we both became Christians after we married,
and I would not trade one instant of our lives for anything. God has
been faithful, so good to us, and has blessed us far beyond anything we
deserve.
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Holly |
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Bethany |
Clark is a keeper, for certain. He is one in a million, and I am so
thankful to share my life with him. We've lived through his one-year
deployment to Vietnam during our engagement (we married when he
returned), two miscarriages, as well as all the ups and downs of life,
such as when he was in college nine years after high school when the
Lord called him to become a teacher. That is funny, because Clark
always hated school as a student! He retired nearly two years ago from
teaching, and is now subbing as much as he wants in our county schools.
Our oldest daughter Holly was born when Clark was in college--I had a
miserable pregnancy and had to quit work, so he had a lot of pressure on
him at that time. Then, when she was born, she had terrible colic for
three months, so neither of us got much sleep. Life is always
interesting, and its problems always work themselves out. But prayer
and trust in the Lord are the keys.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY of our first meeting to my best friend, my fabulous
husband, the world's best father and grandfather. May we have many more
decades together.
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Selfie, Oct. 2014 |